Nursing homes can be viewed from the perspective of care for
those that can no longer care for themselves or as the last place
where the elderly wait to pass on. Over the years we have
heard of many stories of horrible things done to residents of
nursing homes. These stories have spurned on many law-makers
to pass rigid regulations of all nursing homes. This has been a
good thing, however nursing homes are still run by people and people
can make mistakes or become "disinterested" in their duties.
And there are duties. There is no excuse for shunning the duties that a nursing home must have with their employees. In the law we call them fiduciary duties - those duties imparted on an individual due to the employment he or she assumes. These duties have a higher standard then the duties we all have as ordinary citizens.
When someone takes on a position of responsibility for others - that cannot take care of themselves - they assume a higher standard of care and must perform as such. This includes the individual as well as the employer that made the decision to hire and train said person.
If you have noticed any unexplained injuries such as bruising or scratches or seen your loved one having difficulty doing tasks not previously difficult - these may be signs of abuse. This may be compounded by your loved one "not wanting to talk about it."
If you see bed sores on a loved one - this is a sign of abuse in the form of failure to perform minimal standards of care. What about dehydration - does the staff insure that your loved one drinks enough water?
If you are suspicious of the demeanor of the Nursing Home staff do not just let it go. Your loved one is at the mercy of the staff at the nursing home. If you feel suspicious - investigate. Injuries such as unexplained scratches should be photographed. Dark yellow urine is due to dehydration.
Visit during breakfast, lunch or dinner to see that the meals are nutritious. Make sure the staff is attentive to the needs of your loved one. Observe the interactions between staff and residents.
Calling an attorney is nothing to be ashamed of - it is asking for help. We are here to help you.